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Bathing in the Yoga River

unnamed-1Some of us, are disciplined. Some of us, are not. I always walk a very fine line between the two. I do yoga a lot! I teach a lot, I study it a lot,  I certainly talk about it a lot…and I try to practice a lot. Usually I make it to the mat 2 -3 times a week for my own practice.  I really really try. My students,  who initially hired me for one private lessons a week, are now up  to 2-3 times a week. They have begun to see that their yoga practice is not just a one time thing. As much as we would love it to be.

Oh how I wish the zen like state I achieved, the mental clarity, the abundance of energy I get (from just one practice) would be enough to last me a life time! But one must consistently dive into the yoga river.  We are jagged rocks in need of smoothing by the rapid and pure yoga water. It is something we must dive into as often as possible, constantly cleansing and purifying our minds and bodies.  Making our thoughts and bodies as smooth as the stones at the bottom of a river bed.

Each day is a new day to check in, and no practice is ever the same.  I would love to tell you “try it once and enjoy the benefits.”  I would LOVE to bottle up in a pill the wonderful effects this practice has, but it is a life long practice for you now. Face it head on. Do it regularly, do it always. Do it now! Namaste.

My Proudest Moment in Yoga

 

unnamedMy proudest moment in yoga happened in my 200 hour teacher training course.  The teacher went around asking each student if they planned on becoming teachers after the course was finished.  Many students said “yes” and a lot of others said “no, not for me, I am just here to deepen my practice.” We were half way through the course and that day the teacher said, we were ready to teach each other.  We split up into pairs and were each given a pose to instruct to the other student.  The pose I was assigned was Virabhadrasana II (Warrior pose).  I read through the manual, memorized all the points. I needed to make, starting instructing my student. We began from the feet, to the legs, hips, torso, arms, shoulders, neck breath- and voila! It was like the clouds had parted over my head and a beam of sunlight came shining down on my student who, with my instruction, achieved her pose!  I could not have been more delighted.  That truly was my most proud moment as a yogi because in that moment I became a yoga teacher.  That was the first time I took the yoga knowledge out of my mind and body and placed it into someone else’s body.  The feeling was ecstasy.  I know for many yogis, their proudest moment is when they’ve achieved a pose they’ve been working on for months and I too feel good about myself when I achieve a pose, but nothing, absolutely nothing makes me more proud than to help YOU achieve yours.

 

The Meaning of “OM”

stardust_by_danich01-d5atc0xAt the beginning of nearly all yoga classes, the instructor calls out for a group “Om.” When I started as a student I was a little shy to use my voice.  Personally I was not very comfortable with group chanting.  Little did I know, it was another very powerful way to activate and stimulate a higher vibration.

It is written in Vedic texts that there are 4 stages of consciousness:

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  • Jagrat (waking)
  • Swapna (dreaming)
  • Sushupti (deep sleep)
  • Turiya (bliss)

These stages of consciousness are visual but also are in sound. This is all represented in the symbol of “OM”

“When we chant Om, we are really singing a three part sound: AUM, Ah…oooh…Mmm. Each part vibrates in a different part of the body and represents a different state of consciousness. The Ah blooms in the lower abdomen and represents Jagrat, the waking state. Oooh vibrates in the solar plexus and heart and represents swapna, the dream state. Mmm occurs when we put our lips together, sending the vibrations into our skulls.  With this sound we are calling to our awareness of sushupti, deep sleep. And finally, Turiya exists in the continuing vibration, resonating, unstuck sound of Om.” -Jivamukti Yoga

The most powerful experience I’ve had with chanting “Om” was at the end of my practice.  I had an “ok” practice, nothing spectacular, no wonderful visions or ephiphanies , but when the teacher called for a collective OM at the end of class, I closed my eyes and I could literally feel stardust swirling all around my body.  That was my first encounter with the power of chanting, so please in your next class don’t be shy! Activate these vibrations of the soul.

 

 

Yoga and Meditation- The Third Eye

tumblr_n6u427iVAF1s030vgo1_250Before I just take you on a guided meditation exercise, I wanted to take the time to explain to you the Third Eye.  This is a term we have heard and seen many times in media and in our culture.  But what is it really? Why is this important to know? It is important because when you meditate, it is where you look when your eyes are closed.  The reason it is important to gaze up at the Third Eye with our eyes closed is because it is a place one can focus.  This area stimulates the Pineal gland and allows our thoughts to become so concentrated they become one focused. This is why it is often referred to as the “all seeing eye” due to the fact that is actually our mind doing the seeing.  When you begin to see with your mind it is a completely new and wonderful experience.  The Third Eye is a portal to what many say is another dimension.  Meditating and focusing with the Third Eye allows us to experience deep and wonderful access to new worlds and vibrations.

“The pineal gland is the ‘mind’s eye.’ ” – Dr. Cheryl Craft, Ph.D.,  Chair of the Department of Cell and Neurobiology, University of Southern California.

Ancient cultures have been obsessed with this area of our mind for thousands of years.  It is strongly linked to spiritual experiences.

Where is it when I close my eyes?

I want you to read my instructions then take a moment to sit back and do it yourself:

Gently lean back in your seat or lay down.

Closing your eyes begin to relax all the muscles in your face.

With the eyes closed, begin to gently roll the eyes towards the space in the middle of your forehead, slightly above your eyebrows.

That is the location of your Third Eye.

Still not finding it?

Close your eyelids and imagine the blackness in front of you is a dark movie theater screen. Ready for you to project and create any image onto it.  Focusing your eyes and thoughts towards the Third eye will your thoughts to become one pointed. This is a very powerful tool for focusing.Third_eye

After you have practiced experiencing gazing at your Third Eye it is much easer to be instructed in guided meditation. It also helps after your yoga practice, when you are in the final pose Savasana.  Many people do not have practice with meditation. Understanding where to focus  will help you become more in touch with your higher psyche.

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With this knowledge one begins see the true majesty of Nature and her design.

Still curious? For 18 cool facts about the pineal gland click here: http://thirdeyeactivation.com/2013/11/18-cools-facts-about-the-pineal-gland/

Timeline of My Day

unnamedSince we are starting a new year, it was time for me to buy my annual date book. Now this is a book I put a lot of time and research into selecting, since I’ll be writing in her all year.

I know, many of you use your phones for scheduling, but I am a yogi! I find something so cathartic about writing it down, and checking it off once it’s completed! Oh the joy!

This year I had told myself I want a book with the whole month laid out in front of me so I can finally see ahead! I had visited numerous books stores many times waiting for the perfect one. But the universe had other plans.

I get to my favorite cozy book shop, I head to the section of 2015 planners, and low and behold, there was only one book left!  Not the size I wanted…not the layout I wanted…not anything that I wanted. But was New Years eve! My new life was starting tomorrow! I was out of time! I had to buy it.  I was. So. Upset.

This particular book, was a day calendar. Day. By. Day. Hour. By. Hour. And as soon as I opened it, I HATED it. I felt exposed. “What if someone looks at me writing something down and sees how much free time I have?” I angrily and embarrassingly muttered to myself. Suddenly,  I had an epiphany! Why not fill up every hour! Surely there is much to do in day! And this miraculous little book opened my eyes to see that. Suddenly, I was booked solid from my new book!

“I saw that my life was a vast glowing empty page and I could do anything I wanted.”

― Jack Kerouac

So here it is, my schedule for today:

8 am: Wake up, eat breakfast. Release blog.

9am: Leave to assist yoga class at Yogaworks in Larchmont

10am-11:30: Assist class

12:00: Teach client

1:30: Eat salad!

3:00-4:00: Guided meditation at Bellmont Village Seniors Home

5:00: Eat fish and brown rice!

7:00: Do my own yoga practice

8:00: Tidy music studio.

9:00: Write next article

10:00: Bed!

My Favorite Word in Sanskrit

So far I’ve learned many beautiful Sanksrit words and  phrases,  but the original one I learned, long before I became a teacher has still remained my favorite. I’m sure you’ve heard it being tossed around at some point, in movies, or t-shirts… I even think one of the housewives on New Jersey uses it in the introduction of the show!

“Namaste”

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Namaste (/ˈnɑːməst/ nah-məs-tayHindi: [nəməsteː]  sometimes expressed as Namaskar or Namaskaram, is a customary greeting when individuals meet or depart.

The reason I love this phrase, is for what it represents.  It means “I see the light in you” or “I bow to to the divine in you.” I think it is the ultimate compliment paired with the ultimate blessing.  It has changed my view of people entirely.  What you begin to see in someone is their light, every thing else about them fades away. Age, race, appearance.. all judgement goes out the window.  For me, it has become an excellent way to understand people.  If they have a low light, or low “shining” I ask them how they are doing and I listen.  I try to understand if there is anything I can do to bring them a little more light.  Yoga has refilled my light so much it brims out of me and spills out onto others.  I can barely contain it.  I love sharing this practice with people because it’s awakened me and I feel more energy then ever before.  The best feeling on earth is seeing my students come up out of meditation, with so much light in their eyes.  It makes me emotional.  That connection and connectedness is such a powerful exchange.  A teacher when inspired and connected will receive as much joy giving yoga as a student practicing.

To all my readers: “Namaste!”

Yoga and Memories

imagesThere is  a mind-body connection in yoga.  Meaning, the body, can activate experiences in the mind. For example, our hips carry a lot of our memories and as you begin to stretch and open them up, a flood of memories can come through.
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Pigeon Pose* A very deep hip opener, excellent for unlocking memories.
     When we begin to open the body, stored energy, tension and experiences begin to unlock, in a very peaceful and pleasing way.  Even if the memory is not a good one, you are in a state of mind to process and heal.  Crying in a certain pose of yoga is a very common experience! You are unlocking suppressed feelings.
      Yesterday the memory that flashed into my mind was an extremely happy one. So powerful, it took me back to one of the happiest times in my life. Living in the South of France.  For a moment I saw the ocean and beach where I laid out, I felt the sunlight on my skin. An incredibly uplifting sensation entered my present moment. I also realized, I am that happy again!
    Recalling these memories caused an uplifting effect on my emotions. I realized, through yoga, memories begin to present themselves.
    Remembering the South of France reminded me of what I need to keep doing to stay happy.  Enjoy myself! Everyone has beautiful memories stored inside them and through yoga, it is a safe environment to access them and share in their joy again. Take those happy times from the past to the present and creating more for the future. Sad ones come too, and it is the most uplifting release, to finally set it free and not have it live dormant inside you.

22 Yoga Facts About Me

22 Yoga Facts About me

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1. I started practicing 6 years ago.
2. I hated it.
3. I was very stiff, I am a former basketball player with extremely tight hamstrings
4. I didn’t understand anything the teacher was saying
5. My ego thought the class and the teacher were “lame”
6. But then the boyfriend I had during that time said he really liked me after I did yoga.
7. I realized I felt peaceful and happy despite my original opinion.
8. I took yoga for 4 years for free outside in  a park
9.  Those sessions cleared my mind and inspired me
10. I had magical meditations
11. I would do yoga, then record music.
12. I struggled making money and worked in retail
13. I had terrible anxiety (from my teens into adulthood)
14.  I had trouble focusing
15. It grew into a very dark depression (I’m an artist)
16. I struggled at my retail job (terrible anxiety at work)
17. My nerves were fried
18. My house was a mess
14. I quit retail
15. I decided to enroll in a Yoga teacher training course
16.  For 200 hours I “hit the mat” every day facing my self
17. My anxiety cured.
18. My depression was gone.
19. I started teaching immediately to help others.
20. I enrolled in a 300 hour graduate program
21. I started this blog.
22. My album “Kingdom in the Sky” was inspired by the meditations I experienced in yoga.

A Modern Guide to An Ancient Practice

Hello and welcome to Spiritual It Girl!

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I am experiencing some truly profound life changing techniques on meditation and yoga that I would like to see every generation embrace. A lot of these techniques are to help you get the most out of your yoga or meditation practice.   Unfortunately some of this is lost in a beginners yoga class and most likely, meditation was not a class you took in school.

 

Happiness is masked by outward desires. Thanks to tv/radio/commercials/traffic/cellphones we are bombarded with messages like BUY BUY BUY, make more money, you’re too skinny, you’re too fat, you’re too old. We are repeatedly being told “You’re not anything.” Enough!

 

In addition to negative media messages bombarding us, we are tethered to our desk hunched over at the computer, face down in other technology, or constantly sitting in our cars driving, airplanes traveling etc. We are distracted and hurting ourselves, causing long term problems. If your body could speak to you, I’m pretty sure it’s first word wouldn’t be “thanks.”

 

What you will find on the blog?
  • Easy tips and guidance for a beginners Meditation practice
  • Easy tips and beginners guide to Yoga
  • A Guide to happiness and inner peace
  • Tips for eating well
  • Guided meditation links,
  • Tips for improving home life (your temple)
  • Books to read

 

Basically everything  you need to know to help get in great mental, physical and spiritual shape.

 

ABOUT KAI
When I was 7 I won the award of “Most Spirited” at gymnastics camp.  That pretty much sums it up.  Oh, in high school I was voted “Most likely to see in a new direction” and well, looky here! I am a 200 hour certified yoga teacher and currently enrolled in a 300 hour graduate course. I am also a recording artist.  You can find my albums on iTunes under “KAI ELLE”

 

Why did I create Spiritual It Girl?
What I’ve discovered is really powerful. How do I present it so that it looks not foreign, but familiar? Oh by blog of course!

 

With this knowledge you will have access to a greater power than you have ever known.  People hire me every day to bring positivity, healing and peace of mind into their lives. And not only do you start to feel better but by doing this practice one can also can into incredible shape!  I’ll give you the tools to access these mind and body opening revelations.

 

Take part in this new awakening.  The key to happy is free.  It is simple and accessible.  The only thing I ask is that you open your mind.  I am excited for our journey together!

 

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Hello world!

Welcome to my site! This is a modern day guide to help you on your journey towards your inner self.  Here you will find useful tips to help assist you on your path to wholeness.

“Stop acting so small. You are the universe in ecstatic motion.”
― Rumi